Thursday, October 28, 2010

THAT'S a wedding gift!

One of my favorite things about studying (besides learning another language and being able to talk to my birth family, yada yada yada) is the opportunity to learn first-hand about other cultures from my classmates.

This semester it's cool because our increased ability to speak with our classmates allows us to have really amazing conversations. More and more, our teachers will introduce how things are done in Korea and then ask us to share how things are done in our respective countries.

For example, today we were talking about wedding gifts. In Korea, people normally give money. To an acquaintance you are expected to give the equivalent of $30. And for a good friend, about $50. And for a best friend or family member, you can give more if you wish.

In Japan, money is also the most commonly given gift. But here's where it gets crazy... an acquaintance should get about $300.... and a good friend? How about $1,000+!?!?! Talk about breaking into a cold sweat when a wedding invitation arrives in your mailbox!!! Gak!

2 comments:

Jane said...

I'd have to have a LOT of other engagements to avoid going to any weddings in Japan!!!! It is nice that everyone knows what they should give. It's crazy over here....

Mica said...

Wow, I am really shocked. $1000? No way!

I have a wedding to attend in a few weeks, and I'm having a terrible time figuring out what to give...